It’s My SITS Day!!!

by Mindi Stavish on October 10, 2012

Hi SITSAHS!! Welcome to my little piece of the blogging world.  I am very excited for my SITS day.

Let me explain to readers who have no idea what I’m talking about.  The SITS Girls is an amazing online blogging community of over 40,000 women dedicated to supporting each other through social media, mainly blogging.  I first stumbled upon the SITSgirls about 2 years ago and have been stalking part of their community ever since.   In fact, last May I even traveled to Philadelphia to experience my first blogging conference at Bloggy Boot Camp, hosted by the SITS girls. Seriously if your a blogger and haven’t checked out the SITS girls just do it! Membership is completely free!

So each day the SITS girls chooses a blogger to feature and today is my time to shine.

I’m a full-time working mom of 2 little boys, Xander (age 3) and Noah (age 18 months today!). They pretty much rock! Life as a boy mom is a lot of fun, with a lot of bumps, bruises, and stitches.

My husband, Adrian, and I are originally from New England but landed ourselves quite a distance away from any sort of ocean thanks to the military. I frequently write and share about our experiences exploring Washington DC .

As a pediatric Speech Language Pathologist, I spend my work week teaching children to speak, listen, swallow and correctly use their voice, at a local Children’s Hospital. After returning to work following the birth of my second child, I struggled with finding my place in the work force again. Now 18 months later, I still find it a challenge, but push forward for my family. As a way to ignite my passion for my career, I began a weekly speech and language series here on the blog. Now every Monday, I feature quick and easy tips and ideas in the areas of speech, language, and feeding development. Once a month, I feature guest posts from parents of children with disabilities and medical professionals such as pediatricians, audiologists, and nutritionists.

During the month of October you will find my fall language festival series , with great fall themed books, language lessons, crafts, and giveaways.

Sometimes I share letters that I’ve written to my mom, who has not been part of our lives for over a year. She continues to battle with bipolar depression and that is how she chooses to deal with it. It’s hard not to let it affect me, but these letters have become self therapy.

On a happier note, we are trying to grow our family again.  This time we are needing the help of the doctors, as my struggle with PCOS is rearing it’s ugly head. I plan to document my journey with infertility along the way. Here’s to hoping it is a short one, as we grow from a family of four to five.

Other than my crazy boys my two passions are knitting and photography. My favorite subjects for both are the boys. Recently I shared my favorite photos of the boys from the summer and finished knitting Noah a sweater jacket for the fall.

I tend to over share too many photos and words, but will stop rambling for now. Put your toes in the sand and collect a few of your own shells while poking around my memories and thoughts of my life with boys.

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Lynn Kellan October 10, 2012 at 6:22 AM

Hi Mindy,
I love photography, too, and I must say your photos are beautiful! It’s so nice to meet you through SITS!
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:42 AM

Thanks so much for stopping by. Isn’t it amazing how photography is such a never ending learning journey? I just love it!

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Single Mom in the South October 10, 2012 at 6:33 AM

Happy SITS Day! I”m also a transplant from the northeast to the south. It sounds like you have a lovely life and know it, although I may have an issue with your team allegiance! :-)

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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:41 AM

Hooray for finding another transplant. :) Yup we will always stay true to our new england teams…well except hockey. I never was a bruins fan growing up and since moving here we purchased Washington Caps season tickets so are true Caps fans. Well hubby is still a Bruins fan at heart though. Thanks for stopping by on my SITS day!

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Liza | (a)Musing Foodie October 10, 2012 at 6:54 AM

Congrats on your day, Mindi! Looking forward to continue working with you on Fusion Taste Team – TEAM MARYLAND!!! :-)

Liza
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andrea @ Made Simple and Sweet October 10, 2012 at 7:09 AM

Happy SITS Day!! Love the pics!!
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Alison
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October 10, 2012 at 8:24 AM

Happy SITS Day, Mindi!
Clearly, I need to come by more, I’m really keen on learning more about your language series. My nearly 3 year old is still not speaking properly (not really in sentences, pronunciation not great, he’s multilingual etc). Look forward to it.

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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:38 AM

Thanks so much for visiting on my SITS day!!! I actually did a guest post on toysinthedryer.com on children who are multilingual. It’s such a fascinating topic in our profession.

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Julie Moore October 10, 2012 at 8:35 AM

Happy SITS Day! :)

People like you have a special place in my heart. My father, brother and twin sister all needed speech therapy; my father because he couldn’t give the correct sound for at least half the alphabet or even say his own name, my brother because he had difficulties from repeat ear infections (short eustachian tubes) as a toddler that caused minor speech issues, and my sister because she had nearly as much trouble as my dad had had with her pronounciations. Without the help of people like you, who knows where they’d be today, so I thank you for all you do. ;) My middle child struggles with minor hearing difficulties as well, and we may be taking him to a specialist again soon. I am hopeful that we will find one who sounds as caring and compassionate as you do. :)

Best of luck to you in the family expansion. You all will be in my prayers. My mother was told she would never have children and ended up with a set of twins and a boy, so I know it can be done. :)

May you have an amazing SITS Day. :) Oh, and I’m adding you to my reading list. Take care.
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:38 AM

Thanks so much for your kind words. It’s really a great profession and I enjoy helping the wide range of children I do. So nice to hear of positive stories like yours. Good luck in finding a caring provider to help your son.

Thanks so much for stopping by on my SITS day!! Glad to have you as a new reader!! This month is plenty busy around here with the Fall Language Festival so hope you an find some fun books and craft activities to do with your son through it. It’s been a lot of fun putting together the posts!

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Julie Moore October 17, 2012 at 12:22 PM

I will be sure to look around! Thank you! :)
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Blond Duck October 10, 2012 at 8:56 AM

Popped in from SITS! Happy SITS day! I read your post on PCOS and it gave me hope–my husband and I are trying and I was diagnosed with it. We had a chemical pregnancy so far, but I’m still hoping we can do it the natural way! Do you have any advice on charting? How is the clomid going for you?
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:35 AM

Thanks so much for stopping over on my SITS day! Yes there is lots of hope!! So sorry to hear about your chemical pregnancy. So hard to go through I’m sure. Charting worked well for me with my first. Have you looked into the book Taking Charge of your fertility http://www.tcoyf.com/ It is great!! I used that method along with tracking the chart with a the app. Clomid seemed to work out on the first cycle for me but I find out in a few days if all is going well!! :)

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Amber October 10, 2012 at 9:13 AM

Happy SITS Day to you! Your boys are adorable.
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Cher @ Designs by Studio C October 10, 2012 at 9:14 AM

Have a great SITS day! Love the hair… Redheads rule!!
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misssrobin October 10, 2012 at 9:18 AM

Congratulations on your SITS day. I hope it’s a great day for you.

I know what you mean about stitches. We had three daughters before our son came along. None of the girls needed stitches, but he did by the time he was 18 months. And he’s definitely had more trips for x-rays. Boys!

You have a lovely family.
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:23 AM

What is it about boys?! I am sure there will be lots more to come.

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Christa the BabbyMama
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October 10, 2012 at 9:43 AM

Big congrats on your SITS Day :)
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Barbara October 10, 2012 at 10:08 AM

Hi Mindy! Happy SITS Day! I’m also a fellow boy mom with a Noah of my own! ;)
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:16 AM

Thanks for visiting on my SITS day! Hooray for another Noah. I just love the name. It’s so classic, simple and yet timeless.

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Alexa October 10, 2012 at 10:09 AM

Oh I love this Blog already! First of all, Happy SITS day! Secondly, I can’t wait to check out your tips for speech therapy. Our 10 month old was born 10 weeks early and growth restricted… had problems eating, wound up with a G tube, and we’ve worked with speech therapists since shortly after birth when her eating issues became evident. She is doing great and we only see the ST once a quarter now, but I still look forward to your tips! Especially as she starts talking!
I also have an addiction to yarn! But it is sadly just sitting in a pile these days!
Looking forward to checking out your blog… sorry for the novella!!!
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:16 AM

Thanks so much for visiting on my SITS day! I hope some of my tips help! Love hearing stories of this and watching kitds wean off their G tube!! Congrats to her and for all your hard work getting her there!
Also yay for another yarn addict. Checking out your blog now!! :)

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Jen
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October 10, 2012 at 10:21 AM

Happy SITS day! Heading over to check out your newest Fall Language series now!
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ApronTails
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October 10, 2012 at 10:41 AM

Happy SITS day! Such darling boys! Looks like y’all have so much fun!
Have a fantastic day!
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:15 AM

Thanks a ton for visiting on my SITS day!

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Jester Queen October 10, 2012 at 10:46 AM

Happy SITS day. I struggle with bipolar, and my sister did too. I’m actually a nice human being with nasty mood swings. My sister? her nickname was evil sib. She self medicated with alcohol and drugs until my mother had to fight for custody of my niece. When my sister died, it was a relief for all of us. I’m so sorry you’re distant from your Mom, but if her behavior is anything like my sister’s, then you are doing your children and yourself a favor by staying away for now. I hope she gets herself together and starts making the kinds of choices that will make those letters unnecessary. In the meantime, keep writing them. It’s good therapy.
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:14 AM

Thanks so much for visiting on my SITS day and for your story about your own journey with bipolar. It can be such a hard thing to go through. I’m just hoping my mom finds strength to battle through it and come out on the other side so she can live her life the way it’s meant to be lived. She never has been violent or evil thankfully, just withdraws from everyone and everything she cares about. Tears me up!

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Crystal
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October 10, 2012 at 10:47 AM

Happy SITS Day! You have a great blog! :)
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Haley October 10, 2012 at 11:03 AM

Happy SITS Day, going to read some more since I have a little guy who has a little trouble with his speech.
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:13 AM

Please do! Let me know if you might have any questions as well!! I love to help other parents with questions about their kiddos speech and language!

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Kerry
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October 10, 2012 at 11:43 AM

Happy SITS Day! My oldest son actually went through a few years of speech therapy, so I have so much admiration for your profession. Congrats again on your day. Looking forward to poking around.
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Stephanie October 10, 2012 at 1:08 PM

Fun! Happy Sits Day!
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Teresa October 10, 2012 at 1:38 PM

Wow, how do you find the time and energy to do it all! Impressed! Happy SITS Day!
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:08 AM

These days I tend to be a bit sleep deprived! I just manage to find time to do the things I love because they are what keeps me most sane!

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OneMommy
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October 10, 2012 at 2:26 PM

I’m sorry to hear about your mom; I hope one day she re-enters your lives in a positive way. Definitely can relate to letters as self-therapy.
You have beautfiufl pictures! And a lovely family! Happy SITS day!

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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:05 AM

Thanks so much for visiting on my SITS day!! I hope so too. At this point all I can do is hope that she finds her way back to reality sooner than later.

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angela porow October 10, 2012 at 2:46 PM

hey there,
happy SITS day! i so love your openness. I am from the DC area and now in Dallas, TX. Hope the city is taking care of your family! I will be checking back and pray things go well as you guys grow your family. ooo please teach/blog on photos. Your photos are so crisp and I would love to know your trick!
-ap
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LaShawn
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October 10, 2012 at 2:52 PM

Happy SITS Day! I’m origianlly from DC( and yes, IN the city. Not the area!). I love your photos! Looking forward to reading more!
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Maggie S. October 10, 2012 at 3:22 PM

I love that you do so many things with your blog. Your pictures are great. One of my dearest friends is a speech language pathologist.

Enjoy your day!!!
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Christina Morley
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October 10, 2012 at 4:22 PM

Great post, Mindi! My favorite photo is the first one of the boys. All the best with making baby 3. I’ll send a prayer your way and for your mom too.

Tina – mom of 4
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:02 AM

Thanks so much for stopping by and commenting! I appreciate all your kind words and thoughts!

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Audrey October 10, 2012 at 4:30 PM

Happy SITS day! I love your blog, thanks for having us over!
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:02 AM

Thanks so much for stopping by on my SITS day!

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Jen @ Ginger Guide October 10, 2012 at 4:31 PM

Hi Mindy! I already follow you on twitter and instagram but just wanted to say congrats on your SITS Day! I’ve only got my one little guy but we’ve already spent way too much time in the ER :)
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:02 AM

Thanks so much for visiting on my SITS day! I hate those ER trips…especially the late at night ones.

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Laurie October 10, 2012 at 4:52 PM

Happy SITS Day! My daughter had non-verbal apraxia while growing up. We spent a lot of time at speech therapy. When she was pre-teen age she developed a severe stutter. Now that she is an adult she is the chapter leader of the National Stuttering Association in our city. What a great organization; such support we/she has found.
Saying prayers for you in your pregnancy ordeal. My husband and I were married 10 years before we had children.
BTW…great pics.
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 11:01 AM

Thanks for visiting on my SITS day and sharing your story about your daughter. Non-verbal apraxia is such a difficult and long road for treatment. And then to develop a severe stutter..wow she is a fighter! I love the NSA…such a great organization and so glad seh foudn it.

Thanks so much for your support about my pregnancy..come to find out I just found out I’m pregnant over this weekend! Really hoping for a healthy pregnancy now!

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October 10, 2012 at 5:41 PM

Congrats on your SITS day :)
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Gaye @ Calm.Healthy.Sexy. October 10, 2012 at 5:44 PM

I hope you are enjoying your SITS day! I am the mom of two boys too – I love having boys – but mine are much older than yours (the youngest went to college this year). So sorry to read about your struggles with your mom’s depression. That must be so frustrating and stressful for you.
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 10:59 AM

Thanks so much for visiting on my SITS day and for your thoughtful comment. I think I’ll be a big pile of mess for awhile when my boys go off to college. Yes, the depression is a huge struggle and I miss my mom but can only hope that she will find the help she needs and find her way back one day.

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Andrea October 10, 2012 at 5:53 PM

I now know what I want for Christmas – a Nikon. My goodness this pics are super clear and oh-so-nice! Happy SITS day SITStah!

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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 10:58 AM

I do love my NIKON. Do you shoot manual? That’s really the key to getting in focus pictures. We had a lower grade Nikon before this one but I was still shooting in Auto. You are just very limited to what you can capture in Auto. Learning to shoot in manual was hard and a huge learning curve but I just love it now!

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The Roving Retorter October 10, 2012 at 7:36 PM

Great site – and great line of work you’re in!
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viviene @ thejourneyofawoman
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October 10, 2012 at 7:58 PM

Happy SITS Day! Enjoy filling your pail with happy memories! =D
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Mindi Stavish October 17, 2012 at 10:56 AM

Thanks so much for visiting on my SITS day!! I appreciate your comment!

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Karen
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October 10, 2012 at 10:06 PM

Aww, your blog is so cute! I am actually in DC too! Can’t wait to see more of your adventures!

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Mindi Stavish October 11, 2012 at 10:43 PM

Thanks so much! So great connecting with another local blogger!!! Good to meet you. Heading over to your blog!

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